How do you know if a difficult life decision actually has a deadline?
A real deadline exists outside your head, belongs to someone else, and carries an automatic consequence enforced without your intervention.
What changes when you must decide under real time pressure versus waiting?
Under real time pressure, triage requires picking reversible paths; with time to wait, you can systematically test assumptions and gather missing facts.
When is deferring a difficult life decision legitimate versus avoidance?
Deferral is legitimate when you name what you are waiting to learn and set a firm review date; without both, it is avoidance.